tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post6122824017634340923..comments2023-09-23T07:12:58.944-04:00Comments on Sulako's Blog: Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-86244670271867679242008-05-18T17:03:00.000-04:002008-05-18T17:03:00.000-04:00Part 2 is up now, so enjoy my tale of stupidity an...Part 2 is up now, so enjoy my tale of stupidity and embarrassment :)Sulakohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03531849526542668092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-47261129144286393932008-05-16T12:54:00.000-04:002008-05-16T12:54:00.000-04:00How much longer are you going to make us wait befo...How much longer are you going to make us wait before we get the rest of the story!? :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-4612263177725193782008-04-25T10:04:00.000-04:002008-04-25T10:04:00.000-04:00I keep checking to see if more has been added to t...I keep checking to see if more has been added to this blog on this topic. Very well told. <BR/><BR/>High Five's Sully. Half the women on the cover of Cosmo are 15. It's no longer common to fall for someone under a certain age, but if you ever see those couples who have managed to celebrate their 60th, or 70th anniversary, it's always interesting to see how young the bride was on the day of the wedding. I'm sure it was awkward for you, and good on ya for finding a way to make it work.LemonJellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03851066396669429181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-22020989808016713812008-04-06T03:29:00.000-04:002008-04-06T03:29:00.000-04:00I understand the little voice thing. I had had ple...I understand the little voice thing. I had had plenty of normal dates & relationships when I met my wife. I was 21 & she was 25 and I proposed after nine days when the "little voice" took control of my mouth!<BR/><BR/>Now, 40 years on, 38 of them married, we are both happy to be together & I have never been unfaithful despite some blatant offers. That isn't to say that you don't have to work at it some of the time - good, unambiguous communication, a large helping of humour (sorry, British spelling) and a large dollop of consideration are needed from both partners but it is definately WORTH IT!<BR/><BR/>From the photo, Lisa looks to be a beautiful person, not just in looks, so cherish her. The age difference does not matter so much now as at the beginning and is easier your way round than when the woman is older.<BR/><BR/>I wish you a long & happy relationship......<BR/><BR/>Big SteveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-76701530030426052082008-04-03T11:48:00.000-04:002008-04-03T11:48:00.000-04:00The age of consent in Canada is 14.Doesn't make it...The age of consent in Canada is 14.<BR/><BR/>Doesn't make it right though.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-50180645685673515812008-04-03T11:42:00.000-04:002008-04-03T11:42:00.000-04:00Please tell me you did not date a 15-year-old girl...Please tell me you did not date a 15-year-old girl but waited until she was at the age of consent. There are reasons for laws governing relations between people (same reasons we treat juveniles differently than adults in the criminal courts). I'll add that my sentimental self is thrilled that you and Lisa found each other, and my human self wishes you all the best!Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11376251876216401358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-34534885179190127912008-04-03T07:48:00.000-04:002008-04-03T07:48:00.000-04:00Sully,When you first told this to me my jaw hit th...Sully,<BR/><BR/>When you first told this to me my jaw hit the floor. But as life always is, these things are obviously a little more involved than a simple "hehehehehhe i got my selfs a teenager!". I am sure that had most of the naysayers would have had a hard time had they found out the girl they decided to be the one was "too young". Besides I have seen some smoking hot girls that in no possible way looked, acted, or seemed to be jailbait.<BR/><BR/>www.imdb.com/title/tt0226009/ - The movie Jailbait.<BR/>"A comedy about getting off.....with probation"<BR/><BR/>- You are under arrest for statitory rape.<BR/>- You guys think I had sex with a statue?!?!?!?Niss Feinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06020156613398170437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-89354144083367355842008-04-02T11:57:00.000-04:002008-04-02T11:57:00.000-04:00I am glad you addressed my comment rather than del...I am glad you addressed my comment rather than deleting it.<BR/><BR/>I still think it is weird that you would have thought it okay to pursue a 15 year old girl.<BR/><BR/>I would have said to myself that whatever I was feeling about this girl would have to be ignored due to the fact that she was 15. No matter how much of a soul mate I thought she was.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-33621565356757539732008-04-01T14:08:00.000-04:002008-04-01T14:08:00.000-04:00Sully, I too look forward to the rest of the story...Sully, I too look forward to the rest of the story. After we learn the story from your perspective, it would be interesting to get an idea of the story from Lisa's perspective as well.<BR/><BR/>You were a bit outside of the empirically derived formula of half your age plus seven as a minimum age for your romantic interest. :) But that isn't a rule, just an observation of what is typical.<BR/><BR/>People are all different, and while there are plenty of women my age who are outrageously immature, there are women many years younger who are more mature than I am on my best days. As a mid twenties guy, it seems pretty obvious to me that often women younger than me are going to be a better match than women my age or older...excepting cougars of course. Gotta love the cougars.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-23597305005834181952008-04-01T11:34:00.000-04:002008-04-01T11:34:00.000-04:00It's a brave thing to expose yourself.... to your...It's a brave thing to expose yourself.... to your readers, Cap'n Sulako. Believe me, I understand about the unique drama that is each human life . I've got a big "secret" too. not that anyone cares.<BR/><BR/>So I sure don't judge you, and wish you and Lisa the best. It sounds like you're both very happy... and that's all we can hope for, any of us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-38357741034649870252008-04-01T11:25:00.000-04:002008-04-01T11:25:00.000-04:00I think that the age difference shows up at Lisa's...I think that the age difference shows up at Lisa's young years and then in your old years. Her formative years were affected by a mature relationship. Who knows how that might play out as she matures in experience?<BR/>Then when you move into your 60's she will still be a young 40's and that's when the next set of visibly different needs/wants will arise. So I say work on your wellness really hard so that you are a young "old man"and don't hold her back from a full life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-61530372529389960222008-04-01T09:59:00.000-04:002008-04-01T09:59:00.000-04:00At least you had the decency to be horrified with ...At least you had the decency to be horrified with yourself. And to borrow a line from "Mallrats" you two are clearly retarded for each other...so I say ignore the assholes and get on with the rest of the story ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-8539614002246949002008-04-01T08:40:00.000-04:002008-04-01T08:40:00.000-04:00Wow, it's like I was there for it.LOL ;)Wow, it's like I was there for it.<BR/><BR/>LOL ;)Dagnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06053957505110515102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-88002831831454304592008-04-01T02:52:00.000-04:002008-04-01T02:52:00.000-04:00When I first heard this story I was quietly horrif...When I first heard this story I was quietly horrified, but before I could back away, it became clear that this was the real thing and that she was as lucky to have him as he was madly in love with her.<BR/><BR/>Well told, Sully.Aviatrixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13634111275860140084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-76526564811803869862008-03-31T19:37:00.000-04:002008-03-31T19:37:00.000-04:00I know your a busy man but the wait for the sequel...I know your a busy man but the wait for the sequel is killin' me!<BR/><BR/>Nothin' but respect btw. When you know, you know. <BR/><BR/>- MattMatthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420819378907814516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-28529982188351568902008-03-31T17:52:00.000-04:002008-03-31T17:52:00.000-04:00"I gotta say dude, it's a little sick that you wer..."I gotta say dude, it's a little sick that you were a 28 year old preying on 15 year old girls.<BR/><BR/>Now the age thing isn't a big deal, but what the hell were you doing chasing 15 year-olds when you were 28.<BR/><BR/>D-E-S-P-E-R-A-T-E"<BR/><BR/>I was sort of expecting all of the comments to be like this. I'm not going to argue, but I want to clarify a couple of minor points.<BR/><BR/>I want to clarify one thing. I wasn't hurtin' for female company, but that wasn't what I wanted. I wanted to be with Lisa.<BR/><BR/>I was also chasing 15 year-old girl, not girls. Singular, not plural. My previous g/f was in her mid-40's, and this was the first time I had even considered being with someone more than a year or two younger than me. <BR/><BR/>Trust me, it wasn't like "Oh yeahhh...I have my own teenybopper." It was like "Sweet Jebus, I'm in love with a teenager. This is so not good for my reputation. Everyone is going to think I'm a pedophile, and I don't blame them a bit". <BR/><BR/>And I haven't even gotten into the initial conversation with her parents...Sulakohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03531849526542668092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-84986229120482381382008-03-31T16:22:00.000-04:002008-03-31T16:22:00.000-04:00I gotta say dude, it's a little sick that you were...I gotta say dude, it's a little sick that you were a 28 year old preying on 15 year old girls. <BR/><BR/>Now the age thing isn't a big deal, but what the hell were you doing chasing 15 year-olds when you were 28.<BR/><BR/>D-E-S-P-E-R-A-T-EAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-70020085011745791192008-03-28T15:49:00.000-04:002008-03-28T15:49:00.000-04:00f tha haters. your love will keep both of you youn...f tha haters. your love will keep both of you young!<BR/><BR/>http://youtube.com/watch?v=lTISKUGwKYkAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-830419359216149252008-03-28T13:29:00.000-04:002008-03-28T13:29:00.000-04:00I'll be back for more. My "Absolutely HER" is 11 y...I'll be back for more. My "Absolutely HER" is 11 years younger; 7 years later (and a melt-your-heart baby girl later), I haven't been happier since she first kissed me. <BR/><BR/>So please go on Sulako, your story reminds me mine.<BR/><BR/>Cheers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-30874378332245205392008-03-28T04:10:00.000-04:002008-03-28T04:10:00.000-04:00Kinda reminds me about...life (my own?), which is ...Kinda reminds me about...life (my own?), which is about meeting people, note age :)<BR/><BR/>...and in the back of my mind I heard Heaven 17:<BR/><BR/>http://youtube.com/watch?v=j_ca1JXmfCwAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-9896465686488703932008-03-27T17:34:00.000-04:002008-03-27T17:34:00.000-04:00My dad was 25 yrs older than my mom. He had a son ...My dad was 25 yrs older than my mom. He had a son who was a year older than her. They had a good relationship and they loved each other. He was 54 when I was born and 56 when my brother was born. Very rare back in those days.<BR/><BR/>You've lasted this long, I think you'll manage. Marry the girl......( sung like the crab in The Little Mermaid)<BR/><BR/>amulbunnyamulbunny's random thoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10621932038345682056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-84042085720390880792008-03-27T12:43:00.000-04:002008-03-27T12:43:00.000-04:00If you didn't break her, I guess you get to keep h...If you didn't break her, I guess you get to keep her.Frank Ch. Eiglerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06535966377820034604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-62524789082038796882008-03-27T11:20:00.000-04:002008-03-27T11:20:00.000-04:00Ain't it great how that little voice talks to us? ...Ain't it great how that little voice talks to us? Sounds like y'all were meant to be.Tim Perkinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11857824702421873032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-54192912855138290652008-03-27T09:19:00.000-04:002008-03-27T09:19:00.000-04:00A fantastic post Sully, a gripping story and I can...A fantastic post Sully, a gripping story and I can't wait to read more. Like Anon said, as long as you were happy.<BR/><BR/>DaveDavehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14579020155764398326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6837202.post-30895477702341028292008-03-27T07:03:00.000-04:002008-03-27T07:03:00.000-04:00Way to rob the cradle! :) (joke)As long as your ...Way to rob the cradle! :) (joke)<BR/><BR/>As long as your happy, age has nothing to do with it.<BR/><BR/>(unless you heard about the marriage announcement in India last week about the 11 year old marrying his 10 year old cousin?? That might be pushing a little...)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com